So we have been planning a vacation for 6 months.Its really hard as kids are teenagers because they are so busy.But I don't even like vacations because hubs has to plan almost everything (at least the money part).So no matter how far a head he plans ,he really doesn't plan ,he talks.When time for the vacation we have no money to do anything with.So two weeks before vaca he tells me to find us a place with a budget of 1,000. for the week at a beach.I wanted to stay kinda close,incase something came up and the kids had to return.So its 3 hours away.But seriously--we all know this will probably be our last vacation with all the kids .wouldn't you want to stay somewhere nice.So I tell him I can't find anything. Remember its only two weeks till we go.So he comes back and says he found something at another beach for 1400. So I said I can find something for that amount you told me a lot less. I did end up finding something for 1,000.but I am a little worried about cleanliness.So now he realizes we are paying out the nose to have people take care of our animals,its probably going to cost 350.,because we have so many.So I offer to stay home and keep the animals.Because I really don't mind.He also needs a vacation.Hubs has a lot of craziness but that man will work rings around guys 1/2 his age.So I can tell hubs is kind of relieved that I will do this but then he kind of acts like --well if you don't want to come.Totally fake.So I am not offering again but will wait for him to bring it up.In the mean time he is bugging me to stay on insurance people so we can get the money for vacation. Ughh. I am not looking forward to going because the kids argue and fight about things they shouldn't because he allows them and takes different sides.He has often said I don't want to have kids that grow up and want talk to me. To which I say well I want to have kids that grow into people I want to talk to.He encourages competition,I hate that. That's exactly why he and his siblings don't even talk to each other and his Mom too.
Let's see he talks to his dad,his sis talks to his mom and nobody talks to the brother.None of the siblings talk.